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Post by PolyWife on Jan 11, 2015 6:34:51 GMT -5
Why is it so hard to find what you are looking for? That's the thing about Poly it's not just sex. It's a real relationship and finding those like minded people is hard. I know for a lot of swinging couples they only play together and nothing outside of the bedroom. That is fine to each their own but that is not what I am looking for. Swinging is fun and I enjoy it but I like the personal "attention" for lack of a better word that comes with a Poly relationship. Dating, hanging out, doing things, getting to know someone, talking etc. Hopefully one day I will find someone who thinks the way I do.
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will87fm
In the groove
My wife and i are looking for a bi female or a couple to be our FRIENDS with benefits
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Post by will87fm on Jan 11, 2015 8:29:50 GMT -5
Same thing me and my wife think too. Swinging is fun, but not what we are looking for. I want that out of bedroom fun too. Movies, dinner, and other non sexual fun. That tri-relationship were we're comfortable in and out the bedroom weather all 3 is around or not.
At this point it's just frustrating. We though we found what we was looking for again. But she only appeared at our house at nights for some bedroom fun and left soon after. Always had an excuse when it came down to going to the movies or just simply watching Netflix with us in the living room. Smh
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Post by PolyWife on Jan 11, 2015 9:00:51 GMT -5
Yeah it's not easy. I have always said it's not sex. I can get that it's the other stuff that is hard to come by lol.
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FreshCouple
Newbie
Couple for W4M W4MW And WM4WM
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Post by FreshCouple on Jan 11, 2015 20:30:46 GMT -5
I couldn't really say because I have never had a one night stand. But as far as my experience tells me I prefer to know the person before hopping in the sack. I also think doing things together outside the bedroom leads to better Sexual experiences. I for one have always felt that I could love more then one person at an intimate level and as a child I didn't understand why it was considered wrong. I never expressed it though until recently.
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will87fm
In the groove
My wife and i are looking for a bi female or a couple to be our FRIENDS with benefits
Posts: 28
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Post by will87fm on Jan 12, 2015 8:21:42 GMT -5
It's always better to know you're sleeping with a friend and more. Then with a stranger or playmates. The friend part makes things more comfortable and relaxing.
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