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Post by virginia23072 on Nov 16, 2014 11:28:15 GMT -5
My wife and I are looking for another woman to join our family, initially as gf, but eventually as a wife. She wants someone to connect with and help her with me (I am, apparently, a handful), I would also like to make a connection with someone. I think Im overcomplicating this. We both want a friend and lover who will become a member of our family. A partner in all things. I don't know what form of poly that is but that is what we want.
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Post by jaykp454 on Nov 16, 2014 11:40:24 GMT -5
You are talking about polygamy. Polyamory is more of what happens before the additional marriage. At least that is the way I understand it. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe legal polygamy (lawful marriage to more than one person) is illegal in the US. Government can't have people cheating it out of taxes...
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Post by PolyWife on Nov 16, 2014 12:31:45 GMT -5
Yes polygamy is illegal in the states. However you can find a "wife" just not actually marry her legally. I am sure you won't have any problems finding a gf. There seems to be a lot of bi women out there looking to be a 3rd. Or in Polyamory terms be in a triad. Good luck in your search.
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Post by cap and jenn on Nov 17, 2014 7:23:01 GMT -5
Hubby and I have been searching for about 2 years and are yet to find someone. Hope u have better luck than us.
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roka
Newbie
We'd love to find a female friend for a long term relationship in and out of the bedroom
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Post by roka on Nov 23, 2014 13:56:39 GMT -5
We've been looking for a long time as well. Found a couple of women and had some fun, but striking out when it comes to a long term relationship.
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will87fm
In the groove
My wife and i are looking for a bi female or a couple to be our FRIENDS with benefits
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Post by will87fm on Nov 23, 2014 15:58:24 GMT -5
We found one but it just happen we never planned it out. the three of us was just vary close friends then it became more then just friends. it was good times but then she move out of state and we've had no luck finding anyone nearly remotely close to her. Its been 2yrs. we still talk but its not the same for none of us.
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Post by PolyWife on Nov 23, 2014 19:54:49 GMT -5
I know it sucks but that seems to be the way it goes. Like me it was a good thing and were just friends then became more. I don't think we will ever find another couple/situation like that and it makes me sad. I think a lot of people are ok with the term FWB but when you add in the life and love stuff it's a differenet ball game. There is not any poly groups here at all from what I have seen or even open relationship ones. This is why I made this group in the hopes that we can all help one another. Strictly swinging couples seem to have a lot of rules and that is fine but for something a little more intimate you need to spend some time in and out of the bedroom and swinging couples don't usually like to do seapate things from their spouse. And me being straight well that makes it a little harder. I understand the insecurities that come along with it so looking for someone or a couple who is ok with the situation is really hard. And IMO I think single women/men who are bi/straight in a relationship often see being a triad or something similar hold out hope for that "one" is still out there and that takes them out of the loop as far as poly relationships go. Idk if that makes sense at all lol.
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