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Post by cap and jenn on Nov 3, 2014 7:58:29 GMT -5
We are looking for a gf for my husband and I and just don't know where to look for like minded women. Are we consider swingers or poly or what??? We are trying to find ongoing not a one time thing. Any help would 've great. Thanks all
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Post by PolyWife on Nov 3, 2014 12:29:17 GMT -5
The word poly means "many loves" - having more than one loving person in your life at the same time. And generally from what I have encountered with swinging they draw the line at that. There are many variations in this lifestyle and everyone finds what works for them. You don't have to label yourself. I think what you are looking for is more of a poly relationship. Do you both want to be with the same woman and share all even love? If that is ok with you and everyone then I would say poly. If you just want a long term fwb but would rather not have feelings involved or against that then I would say the swinger category. Like I said you don't have to label yourself but it sounds like you know what you are looking for. Inevitably if the connection is there and you spend a great deal of time together then feelings are going to develop. My suggestion is to be up front and honest about it and what may come and open if that develops and make sure your parnter is on the same page as well. Good luck!
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Post by cap and jenn on Nov 3, 2014 19:51:57 GMT -5
Yes we want to be together with the person and enjoy doing things together instead of apart. And if feelings come then they do we aren't opposed to them.
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